I’m trying really hard not to fall into the trap of despair. I know I should be seeing the glass as half full rather than half empty and all that, and I’m responsible for my own attitude. This being said, I’m trying to stay out of that festering pit of gratituous self pity that I can get mired in if I’m not paying attention. Chronic depression, the mental disorder that keeps on giving.
I’m dreading my excursion to the Dr. on Monday. I know that even though I’ve gained some ground in the Snot Wars that whole business has thrown both my blood sugar and blood pressure off whack, and neither of those have gone back down to where they should be. I really, really can’t afford any more meds and tests and such, and it’s frustrating that I try to do the right things and I’m still screwed. Sometimes I just wish I could just quit taking all the damned pills and shots and going through all the bullshit and just drop dead, but it’s not that easy. Knowing my bad luck I’d just turn into a drooling vegetable and/or end up a double amputee or something and then be even more screwed, so I’m not going to take that path.
I’m also quite pissed off about the POMC and the financial aid bullshit he’s going through. Supposedly he is still a “dependent student” even though a.) he works full time, b.) he pays all his own bills, and c.) is supporting his own child on top of everything else. Where in the hell did they get this noise that he’s still a “dependent”- he doesn’t live with me and I can’t claim him or his expenses for tax purposes- SO why in the flying effing hell do they need my farking tax information if I”M NOT PAYING FOR HIM????? Hello? Obama, you jackass, is this what you call “education reform”- counting a student’s parents’ income as if it were the student’s, even if the student doesn’t live with and/or isn’t financially supported by his parents so that it’s harder for the kid to get financial aid? Of course this is his last year of school (YAY!) but every single time the kid has applied for financial aid he- and me by proxy- has gotten nine kinds of shit. Why do they have to make it so damned difficult? Why the hell am I involved at all? He’s a farking adult!!!! Is he supposed to be a 21 year old titty baby? He supports himself and provides a good deal of support for his own kid. If anyone needs/deserves a break it’s someone like him who is 21 and NOT still leeching off his parents. Does the government really think it’s a good idea for parents to support their adult children ad infinitum? Is this their answer for lazy, ill-educated thugs who want everything handed to them and for their parents to cover for them until they’re 40? It really gets on my freaking nerves.
I thought cutting him off the teat once he got teeth was the right thing to do, but apparently the government doesn’t think so!
Anyway, now that I’ve got that venting out of the way, maybe I shouldn’t be quite so pissed. It could always be worse, but I guess the frustration is that I deal with the same shit over and over and over and it keeps coming back.
On the bright side, I have been trolling about for even more MP3s for my collection to add to my cloud drive and player. I was never much of a Rod Stewart fan back in the 80’s- I always thought him a bit too on the mellow side- but I’m enjoying some of his stuff now. I have a lovely eclectic mix of tunes- mostly because I really can’t stand most of the local radio stations, and I can’t really narrow down all the music I like to one particular genre. I like classical, I like blues and jazz and funk, and of course I get into rock and metal- especially the orchestral, grandiose rock of the 70’s and 80’s. Maybe it’s because I played music long ago, and I studied classical voice, that I tend to be a bit fussy and perhaps even a bit highbrow at times. I wonder if I could remember how to play bass after 15+ years of not playing at all. I still have a voice and I still have the range (a little over 3 1/2 octaves- alto II through soprano I, believe that) but my age, lack of stamina and constant snots pretty much keep me from doing much more with that besides singing in the car and at church. Yes I sing it loud and sing it proud in church. Lutherans can get away with that. I’m kind of curious to see on Sunday- I have to go to my nephew’s Confirmation- if the Methodists can crank it out. 🙂
I’ve got to get in a better state of mind. Maybe a few rounds of “Da Ya Think I’m Sexy” might help.
All the cool musicians looked better in 1981.
I have a good time with that- until I remember that Rod Stewart is older than my Dad. Then I get kinda sorta creeped out.