Ok, the illustration is in French, but even with my very limited knowledge of francais from high school, I get the Alcohol Tree just fine. Excessive use of alcohol screws one up royally and does a good bit of collateral damage at the same time. Yeah, here’s my public service announcement for the day. I haven’t gotten shitfaced since that legendary episode in 1993 when I found myself in a motel room bathtub- alone- immersed in freezing cold water with a half-eaten Domino’s Pizza on the ledge. Something about realizing what a total loser I was and that I’d have to go to work in a few hours wearing no makeup and yesterday’s clothes really put the damper on my drinking excursions. That’s probably a good thing because I was always a “forget it all” drunk, as in “how the hell did I get home last night?” or worse, “did I sleep with so-and-so?” To my knowledge my conquest record while drunk is pretty much as lame as when I’m sober, which reassures me that I didn’t get any action I don’t remember. Good thing I’m consistently pathetic in that pursuit as I would hated to have missed anything. My drinking these days is limited to maybe a glass of wine every six months or so. It lost its charm for me years ago.
Jerry, on the other hand, drinks enough for a freaking army all by himself. This was my plight Thursday night into Friday morning (when I had to go in to work at 6:30, of course) – listening to him bouncing off the walls (literally) and blaring the local death metal station until 1AM or thereabouts. At least it wasn’t the old-time country station, or I’d had to have sneaked downstairs to cut the breaker. As long as I left the breaker for the furnace blower on it would have been OK. I can tolerate death metal a lot better than Hank Williams Jr. or Willie Nelson, believe that. I need to rig a kill switch for the stereo which I will do one of these days. Saturday night was a most unnecessary drunk and stupid encore, though I got lucky in that he got too drunk to remember how to turn the stereo on. I wish his so-called buddies would stop buying him twelve packs of beer, because he sees it as a challenge if there is more than one twelve pack in the house.
Dogs on the other hand are far easier to condition. As much as I hate to take a hard line with Sheena the water bottle is most effective. Usually just the sight of the water bottle is enough to help her remember to choose to be a good dog. It works really well to keep her out of the kitchen when I’m fixing food. I know she has to learn better- hence the constant douching- because having a dog trying to get her snoot into everything just isn’t conducive to being able to prepare meals. I wish I had something like that for Jerry. Maybe I should try the spray bottle on him and douche him a good one every time he picks up a damned beer can. It’s a thought. I think Jerry would need something a bit stronger than water though- say vinegar, or Dave’s Insanity Sauce. Yes, the dogs learn faster and with less effort.
Most of my dealing with drunk and stupid would fit into the “avoidance” category. Usually out of sight with Jerry means out of mind, so if I hide in the corner of my room with the door closed and the light off he usually won’t go out of his way to pester me. If he persists in annoying me then I have to ramp it up to “passive aggressive” repercussions. One I’ve been toying with trying lately involves duct taping his ankles together. I hate it when I think he’s passed out only to have him jump up and start raving and wandering again. He usually does this after a quiet lull – and just when I think it’s safe to go to the bathroom he starts in because he sees me and then something deep in the reptilian part of his brain remembers he’s not annoying me so he needs to start in again. I don’t mind being around Jerry when he’s sober, but it seems he only wants to hang on me like some twisted clingy alien when he’s drunk. I absolutely detest that which is probably why he does it.
In his defense, Jerry has his good points, but they are nowhere to be found or even imagined when he’s shitfaced. I know I have my vices so I probably shouldn’t be so critical. But a word of advice for the drinking set- if you drink to excess, be assured that when you’re drunk you’re a dumb ass, and no one wants to be around you when you’re shitfaced. Take it from someone who knows.