At least someone’s getting some.
Nothing gets young twenty-and-thirty something women’s undies in a bunch like a wedding- especially their own, or God forbid, that of a family member or close friend. I got railroaded into that mess exactly three times- once for my first ill-fated wedding, mostly courtesy of my mother, and twice for my sisters’ weddings- and I refuse to go through that noise again. As far as I’m concerned if you must get married, then have the sentience of mind to just go the courthouse and let the Justice of the Peace du jour do it. You can clue me in about it after the deed is done and I might be nice enough to score you a Target gift card or a free pizza or something.
According to Steve-o, “If your pants are bigger than mine, I’m not getting in them.” If you see something like this on your wedding day, run like hell. Need I say more?
I wore a tie-dyed Toyota t-shirt, black shorts and shower shoes for wedding #2. I’m glad I didn’t blow the scratch for high faluting clothes. It was August and it was bloody hot. I sincerely hope that the illustrious Steve-o and his daughter’s mother do actually get married- that would be nice- but I hope that they have the good taste to keep it simple and tasteful and most importantly, frugal. Everyone knows it’s extremely rare these days for anyone to make it to his/her wedding day with his/her virginity intact, but let’s just say it would be a bit on the tacky side for the bride to blow all kinds of money on a bright white gown and to force her friends to buy fugly dresses they’ll only wear once, especially when the couple’s kid’s a year old or more.
See what I mean about fugly dresses? However, these may gain a second life, either as curtains, the covers for cushions that go in the dog crates, or upholstery of some tacky sort.
I don’t mind being the spectator and making commentary on the frightening (not to mention bloody expensive) fashion faux-pas I observe from others’ weddings. That’s fun, as long as I don’t have to be involved in the party planning, I don’t have to make an extended road trip to be there, and I’m not stuck buying a fugly dress I’ll only wear once.
I don’t believe in fairy tales and princess brides and all that happy horseshit. I don’t think I bought that line of crap as a kid either, if only because I was awkward, ugly and proportioned like a mutant troll as a child too. Plus ça change, plus c’est la méme chose…
Anyway, watching other people’s elaborate weddings fail to go according to plan does have some entertainment value, which is sad. There’s a bit of the schadenfreude element there too, as I can’t help but to enjoy seeing the beautiful people get screwed over. I get screwed over every day. That’s my “normal,” so I do enjoy a little bit of that sinister glee in observing a high dollar outdoor wedding getting rained out, or someone’s wedding pics suddenly taking on a whole different dimension when complimented by dog humping. But I fail to see the wisdom in thinking that it is actually possible to engineer a “perfect day.” The only person guaranteed to show up at your wedding is the one person who you’d never dream of sending an invitation: Mr. Murphy.
Any kind of staged event, from a graduation to a speech, to a concert, to a play- anything that involves a number of people and processes that have to work together correctly- is a guarantee that somewhere in that process Mr. Murphy will show up. Murphy’s Law is alive and well, and nothing contributes to Murphy’s Law playing out than a number of people and processes that have to come together at the right time and in the right way.
Then there are people who are just plain touched in the brain. I like venison as much asmost other rednecks, and I admit with some trepidation that I do know how to make deer meat taste good, but this cake draws the line:
Something in my visual cortex will not allow me to eat this cake. That, and knowing what cake and sweets do to my blood sugar- I’ll have to pass.
I have to wonder about a wedding in which the bride is doing a keg stand too. I know people get drunk and stupid at weddings, but one would think the happy couple would stay sober long enough to do the nasty later?
Sometimes we need to see the guys through beer goggles too!
I can’t really say I ever had any better luck getting lucky back in the day when I did indulge in a lot of binge drinking. The last time I ever really got shitfaced, as in forgetting what planet I was on, etc. I woke up in a motel room alone. That’s not a terribly good commentary on my self-control, but at least I didn’t get friendly with the toothless truckers who were trying to hit on me earlier in the evening.
For some reason when I used to enjoy going to bars (?) which seems completely foreign to me now because I don’t like crowds and I can’t drink due to medical issues, the fugliest dude in the place always seemed to be compelled to talk to me. I’ve tried to figure this out but can only come to two conclusions:
I was a target because I was just as fugly as the toothless truckers and/or lard assed bald dudes, and/or I was a target because the only things they picked up on were my boobs, as in boobs=female, usually.
One of the beautiful things about being my age is that there are no more worries about the “biological clock”- ’cause that dude’s been dead for a number of years now, and by the time a woman hits 40 she (should have) come to the blissful realization that while men are enjoyable, you don’t need one, and you don’t need to take their shit.